Just been thinking, why is it that we always try to understand the opposite sex? The more we try, the more we seem to complicate something that is in actual fact totally simple. Hey we've all done it, most especially with women, so after all the over-analysis and wondering and trying and seeking out understanding, I've come to a basic conclusion: NOT UNDERSTANDING THE OPPOSITE SEX COMPLETELY WORKS JUST PERFECTLY.

And no, that does no mean compromise of any sort at all, it just means an acceptance. To make a relationship work, the foundation of acceptance needs to be strong, love them as they are for who they are without the intent of changing them. I mean, we fall inlove or have interest in a person because of the person they are right, so why waste time and mess up things by trying to change that. Its a principal of mutual respect for your partners individuality. Hell, if they say "I care", thats great, if they say "Its just been a long day" so be it.... Without the over analysis of every word and need to change the person, everything just falls into place and flows smoothly like a breeze over a lake.

Life and everything in it is very simple and uncomplicated... People just create complications.

Have an uncomplicated day...

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